To The Little Boy Who Made Me A Mom.

To the little boy who made me a mom, 

I feel like it was just yesterday that I saw those two lines on the pregnancy test. 

When the kicks and the excitement of hearing your heartbeat was like no other feeling.

When my water broke and your daddy and I had a panic attack thinking, “this is really happening. We are parents.” 

When I held you in my arms for the first time. 

When daddy and I were wondering how in the world we were going to be able to do this at home on our own. 

Your sweet smiles and cuddles have been the absolute light of each day. 

Watching you grow and learn and be the sweet, outspoken, adventurous little boy that you are has been the best ever. 

Through these uncertain times, you and your daddy have been the constant joy I needed. And I would be lying if I said I wasn’t nervous for you to grow up in this world. 

As we approach your first birthday on Friday (silently crying) I can’t help but think of all the things I want to teach you.

You’re so sweet and innocent and I love being a mommy to such a precious, wild boy. As you grow I want you to know things, especially in the world we are living in now and even more so when you are older.

Your feelings matter. You matter and don’t ever forget that. 

Dream big and chase those dreams because we will always be there chasing them with you. 

Be kind. Always. People will always remember the way you treated them. 

Treat everyone equally and don’t be afraid to. 

Be whoever and whatever you want to be. You are forever supported. 

No always means no, no matter what. 

Stand up for what you believe in, your voice is always heard.

Use the words, “I love you” wisely. Three small words that have the biggest meaning. 

Choose good friends, they have such an impact on your life. 

Know that you will forever be loved, supported and taken care of, I promise you that.

I am so lucky to be your mama. I just want you to know that I will be there always, no matter what. 

I pinky promise. 

Love, 

Your mama 

Comments

37 responses to “To The Little Boy Who Made Me A Mom.”

    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Thank you!!❤️

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      1. Krisna Avatar

        This is so lovely. I have a baby boy as well and this just melts my ❤️

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      2. quirkymoms486 Avatar

        Awe!! Thank you so much 💕

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  1. Shelly DS Avatar

    He will grow up to be an amazing man because his mom is awesome!

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Awe! You’re too sweet! Means so much 💕

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  2. Garlin Avatar
    Garlin

    Read your blog and that is totally you🥰

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Thank you!❤️

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  3. clairelomax2018 Avatar

    This is so beautiful. My son is coming up to 13 now but I still feel these things so much. I can remember the feeling of holding him for the first time. There is nothing quite like that.

    I hope his 1st birthday is magical x

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Awe so sweet!! Thank you so much! I am hoping to do a birthday post on it next week 💙💙

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  4. Blanca Avatar

    Wonderful and wise words for your son. This brought back beautiful memories of my son being a baby, he is seven now!

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Oh my goodness, I better get used to the years going by fast! Thank you so much!

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  5. Jaya Avendel Avatar

    Aww, I love that you have written this! Hopefully, you can look back when it comes time for year two, though I know right now is all that matters.

    I love the ideals you are teaching to your son, though that photo at the end made the whole post even sweeter to me.
    Thanks so much for sharing!

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Awe thank you so much! Yes that picture melts my heart too even though it’s so simple!

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  6. Michelle Avatar

    That’s beautiful. Kids grow up so quickly. Mine are 20 and 17 now and it feels like just yesterday they were tiny babies.

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Yes, they really do. I feel like it was just yesterday when I held him for the first time and it’s already been a year.

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  7. Alexis Farmer Avatar

    What a beautiful read ❤️

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Thank you so much!

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  8. ABIGAIL Avatar

    Beautiful post! Thank you so much for sharing!

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Thank you so much!💕

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  9. Shai Avatar
    Shai

    Very cute! I still cry when I think back on my son being a baby. I miss it so much 😭

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      I have a feeling I will be the same as the years keep going by!!

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  10. goatdogsimple Avatar
    goatdogsimple

    Beautifully written! It’s truly amazing to watch our little ones grow. Wishing him a wonderful 1st birthday. Thank you for sharing your sweet words.

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      It really is such a joy! Thank you so much!❤️

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  11. chapelhillbaby Avatar

    I love this so much! He’s lucky to have you for his mama!

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  12. chapelhillbaby Avatar

    How sweet! I love this. He’s lucky to have you as his mama!

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Thank you so much!💕

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  13. Olivia Avatar

    This is beautiful! He’s so lucky to have you as his mama!

    xoxo Olivia | http://www.oliviaandbeauty.com

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Awe thank you so much!!❤️

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  14. VitaminC-GreenTea Avatar
    VitaminC-GreenTea

    so beautiful!

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Awe thank you!

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  15. MaryAnn Kasper Avatar

    Okay, I just cried after reading your post. The part I think that hit me most was that your little boy’s feelings matter. That was so different from the way that I was brought up where we just always had to put on a happy face. Now I need to do some boundary work but hey, it’s never too late to begin again. Thanks for sharing and loving that little boy.

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      You’re going to make me cry!! Yes I really want to make that known in this motherhood journey. Thank you so much for reading and no it’s never to late to begin! ❤️

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  16. Aswathy Gopalakrishnan Avatar

    Birthday months are always emotional isn’t it. Mine just turned two and I feel overwhelmed. Beautiful post, Amanda 🙂

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Yes! And then you get all the photo memories for the past year too so it gets you even more. Thank you so much!

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  17. Hope Chilinda Avatar
    Hope Chilinda

    aaawww💜💜💜

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