I wish someone would have told me..

Do you ever remember the rejection you felt when you were younger and someone didn’t want to play with you or sit with you or even just talk to you?

It was the worst getting your feelings hurt or feeling left out at recess or not having a partner for a fun activity.

I think about that way more often now that I have children.

I wish someone would have told me to make sure you play with them whenever you are asked. That advice is actually worth getting.

When I’m busy and feel like I have so much to do and a little voice comes up behind me and says “mommy, will you play with me?”

A far too usual reply ends up being “in a minute, let me just finish this really quick”

Sometimes do you even look behind you at the little face so eagerly waiting for you to be done when you are busy with your tasks? I’ll be honest, not always.

I feel like we think because they are so little, they won’t understand. But trust me, they do.

A bad day or a sad day could easily be cured by simply sitting down on the floor with your children.

Let them take the wheel, trust me their imaginations are enough to sweep you up into their worlds.

Sit on the ground and be present.

Let them bring you things, let them dance around you and zoom across the living room.

The laundry can wait to be folded and put away.

The dishes can stay dirty for a little while longer.

The floors don’t need to be swept right this minute.

The housework never goes anywhere, but these little moments with your children do.

Give them your attention.

Let them make you laugh and be silly.

You need it just as much as they need it.

My favorite is when my son tells me he had the best day ever with me when all we did was play for a little while or went out and about as a family.

So the next time you hear that little voice come up behind you asking you to play or to talk or to sit with them.

Make sure you do.

Play with them, it matters more than you know.

Comments

14 responses to “I wish someone would have told me..”

  1. MisterRick Avatar

    This is Awesome💜

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  2. Chocoviv Avatar

    These are great reminders!

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Thank you for reading! 😀

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  3. Pepper Valentine Avatar

    This is so true and I wish more parents were like this with their children! 🙂

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      I do as well! Thank you so much for reading 🥰

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  4. Fransic verso Avatar

    I agree, it really is worth and now it’s the good time to spend time with the children instead of pushing them away. Great advice!

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Yes definitely! Thank you for reading 😀

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  5. Her Digital Coffee Avatar

    Lovely post. It really makes a big difference when you pay attention and play. It truly strengthens your bond and builds trust. Thanks for sharing!

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Yess so agree! Thank you for reading! 🥰

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  6. Kelly Diane Avatar

    This is a great post. I know it’s easier said than done because there’s always such a big to do list but before we know it they will be to grown up to want to play with us. It’s definitely always worth trying to make the most of it whilst you can.

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    1. quirkymoms486 Avatar

      Thank you so much for reading! You are so right, easier said than done but so worth it!

      Like

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