I am right there with you.
For a patient person, my patience is thin and you know what? It’s ok.
Do I feel guilty about it? Sure.
Do I wish that every day could just be rainbows and butterflies? Absolutely.
This motherhood journey is not all rainbows and butterflies though, and boy don’t we know it.
The other day both my kids were crying. One because he couldn’t have a snack right before dinner and the other just because her big brother was crying and she thought she needed to as well.
A glass of wine and a bathroom break with the door actually shut and not being opened or pounded on sounded so amazing at that moment.
I feel like sometimes the pressure just builds up for us with every cry or every tantrum and it’s tough to not be bothered.
Throw in a long day at work and I am just exhausted thinking about it.
It’s hard to keep your head up as a mom.
I think sometimes we just feel beat down. Weather it be a rough night of sleep, a bad potty training day, a crying baby you just can’t seem to soothe, a guilty day of work when you just wish you were home, a sick kiddo that has you feeling miserable as well.
The list goes on and on.
It’s all ok though and I really hope you know that when you feel this way, how great of a mom you are.
It’s the toughest job in the world that you show up for every single day. But the reward? It’s the greatest of all time.
Keep your head up, make sure you take the breaks you need.
Take time for yourself, use your tribe of people when you need the help and DO NOT feel guilty about it.
Take a deep breath and know that the guilt will subside and there will be far more better days than bad ones.
Just know that you’re a wonderful mother and we are all in this together.


A great post – read at the right time! 🙂 Sometimes… it is just OK! Sim x
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Thank you! ❤️
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This was so encouraging. Thank you!
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I’m glad! Thank you!
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Thank you for this post. I needed it today! And I’m sure a lot of other parents out there need it too!
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Oh definitely! ❤️❤️
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Being a working mum is difficult and she mum guilt just creeps in. It’s hard to control. Thank you for sharing the reality of motherhood!
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You are so right! Thank you!❤️
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This is so lovely and encouraging for any parent having a tough time; I’m sure anyone in that situation will find a lot of comfort in your words.
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Thank you so much ❤️
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Amazing reminder and love the positivity in this post. Thank you for sharing!
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Thank you!!
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What a beautiful post. I’m not a mother myself, but it reminds me of my own mother and makes me appreciate her even more. I am a person with a disability so you can just imagine the amount of attention I needed as a child, and still need. However my mother never fails to be available for me. I really love my mother.
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Awe I’m so glad this reminded you of your mom! Thank you for sharing that with me and thank you for reading!
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Great post! I think we as moms we all wanna hear this . Perfect timing
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Thank you so much for reading 🥰
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